Matthew
18:21-22
Then Peter came to
Him and said, "Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I
forgive him? Up to seven times?" Jesus said to him, "I do not say to
you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.
Bible
Reading for a Year
[bible]psalm74[/bible]; [bible]roman2[/bible]; [bible]numbe31-32[/bible]
Kulvinder Kaur is a
23-year-old woman who had experienced fear and abuse and hatred; all of them
were caused by her father. It began since she lost her mother who died 3 years
ago. Since her mother had gone, her father should have been a good parent for
her, but he didn’t. He treated Kaur badly.
Many times that man
beat Kaur, even sexually abused her. On April 30th, 2014, Kaur had a
chance to revenge for what she’s got all this time. She tried to kill her
56-year-old father in their own home. Kaur asked her two friends to enter his
bedroom, attacked him while he was sleeping, and then killed him. Later Kaur
got into that room to find out that her father was dead.
In addition to her
friends’ attack, Kaur beat her father continuously using some glasses. Later,
they brought the dead body of Kaur’s father and put it in the middle of a
forest. Anger and hatred have blinded Kaur’s conscience.
Holding a grudge is
like making preparation for destroying the future because it creates root of
bitterness inside. Anyone who holds a grudge surely will never experience peace
and harmony because she is filled with hatred and anger. For now we have been
set free by Christ, we are no longer bound by hatred. We should control our
anger so no root of bitterness can grow!
Ask for God’s help
to break the hatred and heal the bitterness in you. It will be difficult for
you to set yourselves free on your own. Ask Him to give you peace, as well. And
then, try to share your feelings with some people you can trust and can develop
you into a better person. The burden will be lighter.
Yes, it is not easy
to forgive those who hurt us, but it will be more difficult to live in hatred
and anger. Therefore, try to soften your heart!